Bharat M Patel posted on 9/14/2017 4:26:16 PM
i just read your answer :-We had 12/14 years in which many couple have participated in Samuh Lagna. I am sorry to inform you that We dont have any Samuh Lagna going on nor in near future we have planned for. ....which is true. What happened ? Why they stopped Samuh lagna / as you got messages from all over I think it should be continue and should give them helping hand. Patidar Samaj, we extravagantly spend money on the weddings; which most of the time leads to huge indebtedness. So I hope it is important to curb such unnecessary expenditure.We should help our local Patidar who stryggles to make ends meet--specially who (including me) lives abroad....we should control ourselves and join samuh lagna. and shold start again .that will be a great help to our samaj locally.... Is any body, any patidar mandal working on this ?? I heard that we spend $75000 to $100,000 or more for marriage here in this country....nothing wrong, more power to them but at the same time we should think about Patidar samaj back in our district in India and should try to help them and should keep continue Samuh Lagna. See if you can create interest in the NRIs who lives abroad...take this first step and see what happens...... Bharat.