Everyone is entitled to know about their ancestors. This is a good attempt towards that. As far as ghor is concerned, I am from Virsad and and we Virsadians never joined any ghor for various reasons. The reason for our younger generation not getting married in Patel families is scarcity of marriage age girls in the community and not ghor.It is a problem for all the mariage age boys in India. Lots of effort needs to be put up towards that in place of blaming our ancestors. It is them who brought us to the present stage of development our communities have today. They must have their wise reasons for adopting Ghor concept.  

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PATELS YOUNGER GENRATION DO NOT CARE ABOUT
GAAMS  AND DOWRY IS ABOLISHED.
THESE RELICS SHOULD BE FORGOTTEN AND MORE
HOMOGENISED SOCIETY CREATED BECAUSE OF PATEL GORS
LOTS OF BOYS AND GIRLS ARE FAILING TO GET MARRIED IN PATELS. THEY HAVE TO MARRY ANGLO-SAXONS 

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